Gulp Fiction!

Did you ever think “gulp, what happens now”, when you first found out that you were having a baby?
It’s an amazing feeling knowing that you as a couple have created this little creature who will totally change your lives. Once the baby is born your status will change to that of “family” and your responsibilities for this tiny person are only just beginning.
The overwhelming feeling of joy and elation when you first find out spreads like wildfire throughout your family, and can turn an otherwise dull day into a life changing experience.
I have personally experienced these feelings 4 times and another 6 times with my grandchildren, and I can honestly say that it is the best thing that has happened in my life. I wouldn’t trade any of it. Babies have their own unique smell and just to give them a cuddle is one of the simplest joys in life.
There can be issues with sleeping and feeding in the beginning but when your child gives you that very first smile it’s all worth it.
Children add a whole new dimension to your life and you are continuously learning from them as well.
Should this baby change your life? YES! And in my opinion it’s for the better! If you and your partner have a close bond then the addition of a baby should only strengthen it. If a couple has problems after the birth then in my opinion the relationship wasn’t strong in the first place and this may need contemplation by both partners to work out how to turn the situation to their advantage.
So if you are contemplating having a baby and worrying about the changes in your life, just think of the wonderful gift you’ll receive in 9 months!
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